My boyfriend and I had almost the same situation before visiting Barcelona because back home everything connected to weed feels complicated and not worth the stress. We chose Spain mostly because we wanted a relaxed trip without dealing with sketchy situations or random people on the street. At first the whole club system looked confusing since many places are very discreet from the outside, but after talking with a few locals near the beach we heard about https://barcelonaweedmap.com/ during a conversation about social clubs and chill areas in the city. After that everything started making much more sense and the atmosphere felt surprisingly calm and normal.